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A '''she/her gay''' is a specifically tailored identity that refers to a gay man who uses she/her pronouns. The term can be used by any men who are mlm ([[achillean]]) and use she/her pronouns. Those pronouns can be exclusive or one can be [[Multipronouns|multipronoun]] or [ |
A '''she/her gay''' (or '''shegay''') is a specifically tailored identity that refers to a [[gay man]] who uses she/her [[pronouns]]. The term can be used by any [[men]] who are [[vincian|mlm]] ([[achillean]]) and use she/her pronouns. Those pronouns can be exclusive or one can be [[Multipronouns|multipronoun]], [[crosspronoun]], or otherwise [[Pronoun_Non-Conforming|pronoun non-conforming]]. |
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[[Neopronoun Gay|Neopronoun gays]], [[Neopronoun Lesbian|neopronoun lesbians]], [[He/Him Lesbian|he/him lesbians]], [[They/Them Lesbian|they/them lesbians]], [[It/Its Lesbian|it/its lesbians]], [[They/Them Gay|they/them gay]] and [[It/Its Gay|it/its gay]] identities exist under the same principle. She/her gays are also sometimes referred to as she/her [[vincian]]s, she/her [[patroclian]]s, she/her [[cinthean]]s, she/her [[wildean]]s, or she/her [[achillean]]s. |
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It may be called shencian (based on vincian), sheldian (veldian), or ashellean (achillean). |
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== She/Her Gays vs Trans Women == |
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== Comparisons with [[transfeminine]] identities == |
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It is a common misunderstanding that she/her gays "make the [https://lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/Transgender transgender] community look bad", but that is simply the fault of the people who refuse to think about the subject or break down the concept to understand it. Oftentimes, pronouns are gendered but in some cases they're not despite what society says. The pronouns one uses are another part of [https://lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/Gender_Presentation gender expression], just like one's clothes or behavior. In the same way some [https://lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/Non-Binary non-binary] people are more comfortable using pronouns other than they/them, some [https://lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/Binary_Genders binary] people feel more comfortable using pronouns other than the one's typically associated with their gender. |
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It is a common misconception that she/her gays "make the [[transgender]] community look bad", which is often due to many people forgetting to recognise the sheer diversity represented in the LGBTA+ community. This includes, as described above, pronouns not being equal to gender and conformity to a specific gender not being regarded as a strict necessity for such an identity. In the same way some [[non-binary]] individuals are more comfortable using pronouns other than they/them, some [[binary]] individuals can feel more comfortable using pronouns other than the ones typically associated with their [[gender]]. |
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== Flag == |
== Flag == |
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The she/her flag was designed by Tumblr user Wuvsbian on May 22, 2018 following their he/him lesbian flag. |
The she/her gay flag was designed by Tumblr user Wuvsbian on May 22, 2018 following their he/him lesbian flag. |
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== Resources == |
== Resources == |
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# https://wuvsbian.tumblr.com/post/174142919962/sheher-gay-flag-this-was-requested-alongside |
# https://wuvsbian.tumblr.com/post/174142919962/sheher-gay-flag-this-was-requested-alongside |
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Latest revision as of 18:44, 15 April 2024
A she/her gay (or shegay) is a specifically tailored identity that refers to a gay man who uses she/her pronouns. The term can be used by any men who are mlm (achillean) and use she/her pronouns. Those pronouns can be exclusive or one can be multipronoun, crosspronoun, or otherwise pronoun non-conforming.
Neopronoun gays, neopronoun lesbians, he/him lesbians, they/them lesbians, it/its lesbians, they/them gay and it/its gay identities exist under the same principle. She/her gays are also sometimes referred to as she/her vincians, she/her patroclians, she/her cintheans, she/her wildeans, or she/her achilleans.
It may be called shencian (based on vincian), sheldian (veldian), or ashellean (achillean).
Comparisons with transfeminine identities
A she/her gay does not necessarily identify as female. She may acknowledge she is male, but because pronouns do not always equal gender identity, as a she/her gay is simply a more specific form of pronoun non-conforming gay men.
It is a common misconception that she/her gays "make the transgender community look bad", which is often due to many people forgetting to recognise the sheer diversity represented in the LGBTA+ community. This includes, as described above, pronouns not being equal to gender and conformity to a specific gender not being regarded as a strict necessity for such an identity. In the same way some non-binary individuals are more comfortable using pronouns other than they/them, some binary individuals can feel more comfortable using pronouns other than the ones typically associated with their gender.
Flag
The she/her gay flag was designed by Tumblr user Wuvsbian on May 22, 2018 following their he/him lesbian flag.