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'''Cedural Attraction''', also known as '''Dependent Attraction''' or '''Submissive Attraction''', is a form of [[Tertiary Attraction|tertiary attraction]] that revolves around wanting to feel protected, covered, understood, tutored, and supported by someone else. It is the reverse of [[Tutelary Attraction|tutelary attraction]]. With cedural attraction one feels weak and vulnerable, the possibility that someone might protect you makes you feel an attraction towards some that person. It is also based on a feeling of feeling needed or necessary.
A relationship between protective and protected person can be labeled as guardianship, wardship, or tutelage. A person in that relationship who takes on the protected role could be called a concomitant or guide partner. A cedural crush could be possibly be called a gush or sush.
This relationship should not be associated with DPD (dependent personality), protectors in systems (DID), or with BDSM and kink related power play sometimes seen in sexual/romantic relationships.
== History ==
The concept of cedural attraction was coined on December 23, 2014 on the Spanish language version of AVEN by the user Arya<ref>http://es.asexuality.org/comunidad/foro/reflexiones-asexuales/130-tipos-de-atraccion</ref>. It was known as ''atracción hacia protector'' and was explicitly distinguished it from the kink related power play (known as ''atracción de rol'').<ref>https://web.archive.org/web/20200714230219/https://es.asexuality.org/comunidad/viewtopic.php?f=8&t=130</ref> The post was translated by Tumblr user Neutrois-Maverique on March 16, 2018<ref>https://neutrois-maverique.tumblr.com/post/171922500678/the-12-13-forms-of-attraction</ref>. ''Atracción hacia protector ''was translated as "submissive attraction".<ref>https://queerflagswithbenton.tumblr.com/post/172832114733/submissive-attraction-alternative-flag-by-me</ref> The term cedural was coined by beyond-mogai-pride-flags on August 16, 2018<ref>https://beyond-mogai-pride-flags.tumblr.com/post/177077999890/based-on-this-zedqueerplatonic-alt-flag-here</ref> meaning pleasurable, receptive, favorable, available, and suitable. Cedurality comes from the adjective procedural and the verb cede, another word for it is ceedable and cedable (as in proceedable).
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