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[[File:Xumromantic.jpg|thumb|Xumromantic Flag]] |
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[[File:Xumromantic2 flag.jpg|thumb|Alternate xumromantic flag by Pride-Flags]] |
[[File:Xumromantic2 flag.jpg|thumb|Alternate xumromantic flag by Pride-Flags]] |
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Xumromantic is the state of never being satisfied with ones [[Romantic Orientation|romantic orientation]] no matter how well it fits due to self-doubt or identity issues. This causes one to compulsively search and seek out for something that fits even better -- to find "the orientation" or "the one truth" -- though one will never be found due to |
Xumromantic is the state of never being satisfied with ones [[Romantic Orientation|romantic orientation]] no matter how well it fits due to self-doubt or identity issues. This causes one to compulsively search and seek out for something that fits even better -- to find "the orientation" or "the one truth" -- though one will never be found due to: |
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A) One's neurotype. |
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B) Words will never be able to describe one's romantic orientation. |
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C) One's romantic orientation is paradoxical. This inability to find a "one true orientation" frequent causes doubt and anxiety and can even cause the label xumromantic to feel incorrect to the individual. |
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This term is exclusive to neurodivergent people. It was specifically coined with people with anxiety disorders, OCD, and OCPD in mind. The term [[Implasexual|implaromantic]] exists for neurotypical people who relate to this experience and don't want to appropriate. |
This term is exclusive to neurodivergent people. It was specifically coined with people with anxiety disorders, OCD, and OCPD in mind. The term [[Implasexual|implaromantic]] exists for neurotypical people who relate to this experience and don't want to appropriate. |