Xenosoft is a term for when someone feels that they have a “soft” xenogender identity, or when one has a connection to “soft” xeninity. Soft xeninity may be considered present, but not intense or overwhelming. It may feel comforting in a way that is more soft than the way usual xeninity is felt.
History
Xenosoft was coined by tumblr user the-gender-collector-emself on June 22nd, 2020.[1]
Flag
The flag was created by the same user on the same date. It is assumed to be a less saturated version of the xenogender flag to represent softness, with the xenogender symbol still on the flag.
The alternate xenosoft flag was created by FANDOM user Nebulabrat on January 16th, 2022. The flag is a pastel version of the xenogender flag, with the xenogender symbol on the top left to symbolize the softness of xeninity felt by xenosoft individuals.