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[[File:Tutelary.png|thumb|220x220px|The tutelary attraction flag.]] |
[[File:Tutelary.png|thumb|220x220px|The tutelary attraction flag.]] |
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'''Tutelary Attraction''', also known as '''Protective''' '''Attraction''' or '''Dominant''' '''Attraction''', is a form of [[Tertiary Attraction|tertiary attraction]] that revolves around a strong desire to take care, protect, and support a certain person. It is the counterpart and opposite of [[Cedural Attraction|cedural attraction]]. With tutelary attraction when one sees someone in a sad or defenseless situation one feels not just sympathy but also a sense of attraction that gets them involved with that person and their needs. It is also based on a feeling of feeling needed or necessary. This is the attraction one might feel towards a child, younger sibling, a pet, or a vulnerable person one is favorably disposed toward. |
'''Tutelary Attraction''', also known as '''Protective''' '''Attraction''' or '''Dominant''' '''Attraction''', is a form of [[Tertiary Attraction|tertiary attraction]] that revolves around a strong desire to take care, protect, and support a certain person. It is the counterpart and opposite of [[Cedural Attraction|cedural attraction]]. With tutelary [[attraction]] when one sees someone in a sad or defenseless situation one feels not just sympathy but also a sense of attraction that gets them involved with that person and their needs. It is also based on a feeling of feeling needed or necessary. This is the attraction one might feel towards a child, younger sibling, a pet, or a vulnerable person one is favorably disposed toward.<ref>https://herway.net/love/10-types-of-attraction-and-their-meanings-explained/</ref><ref>https://www.healthline.com/health/types-of-attraction</ref><ref>https://www.regain.us/advice/attraction/what-are-the-different-types-of-attraction-and-what-do-they-mean/</ref><ref>https://trendtoreview.com/10-different-types-of-attraction/</ref><ref>https://psych2go.net/6-types-of-attraction-which-one-are-you/</ref> |
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A relationship between protective and protected person can be labeled as guardianship, wardship, or tutelage. A person in that relationship who takes on the protective role could be called a comate, cherish, ward, or grace. A tutelary crush could be possibly be called a mush. |
A relationship between protective and protected person can be labeled as guardianship, wardship, or tutelage. A person in that relationship who takes on the protective role could be called a comate, cherish, ward, or grace. A tutelary crush could be possibly be called a mush. |
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This relationship should not be associated with DPD (dependent personality), protectors in systems (DID), or with BDSM and kink related power play sometimes seen in sexual/romantic relationships. |
This relationship should not be associated with DPD (dependent personality), protectors in systems (DID), or with BDSM and kink related power play sometimes seen in sexual/romantic relationships. |
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The system version is [[templatonic]]. |
The [[system]] version is [[templatonic]]. |
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== History == |
== History == |
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The concept of tutelary attraction was coined on December 23, 2014 on the Spanish language version of AVEN by the user Arya<ref> |
The concept of tutelary attraction was coined on December 23, 2014 on the Spanish language version of AVEN by the user Arya<ref>https://es.asexuality.org/comunidad/viewtopic.php?f=8&t=130</ref>. It was known as ''atracción de protección'' and was explicitly distinguished it from the kink related power play (known as ''atracción de rol''), encompassed by ''atracción potencial'' ([[Potential Attraction|potential attraction]]). The post was translated by Tumblr user Neutrois-Maverique on March 16, 2018<ref>https://neutrois-maverique.tumblr.com/post/171922500678/the-12-13-forms-of-attraction</ref>. ''Atracción de protección'' was translated as "protective attraction". The term dominant attraction was brought by DeviantArt user SilenceTheFox on April 11, 2018.<ref>https://www.deviantart.com/silencethefox/art/Dominant-Protective-Attraction-Pride-Flag-739957039</ref><ref>https://queerflagswithbenton.tumblr.com/post/172832403393/dominant-attraction-dominant-attraction-can-be</ref> The term tutelary was coined by beyond-mogai-pride-flags on August 16, 2018<ref>https://beyond-mogai-pride-flags.tumblr.com/post/177077999890/based-on-this-zedqueerplatonic-alt-flag-here</ref>. |
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== Resources == |
== Resources == |