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[[File:The better it’s gay .jpg|thumb|It/its gay flag designed by RoseWatera,edited by Berryiskillua]][[File:Official it’s gay.webp|thumb|Original it/its gay flag.]]An '''it/its gay man '''refers to a [[gay]], [[vincian]], or [[achillean]] man who uses it/its [[pronouns]] but is still a man or masculine-aligned. The term can be used by any men who are mlm (achillean) and use it/its pronouns. Those pronouns can be exclusive or one can be [[Multipronouns|multipronoun]]. It is a more specific form of [[Pronoun Non-Conforming|pronoun non-conformity]] and [[crosspronoun]] usage. It is not an uncommon experience for gay men to feel disconnected from their manhood due to masculinity often being defined by relationships to women. Similarly to how [[Lesbian|lesbians]] might go by masculine names or present as a [[butch]], or otherwise [[Gender Non-Conforming|gender non-conforming]], a gay man may use it/its pronouns to express this disconnect from its gender.