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'''Cedural Attraction''', also known as '''Dependent Attraction''' or '''Submissive Attraction''', is a form of [[tertiary attraction]] that revolves around wanting to feel protected, covered, understood, tutored, and supported by someone else. It is the reverse of [[tutelary attraction]]. With cedural attraction one feels weak and vulnerable, the possibility that someone might protect them makes one feel an attraction towards that person. It is also based on a feeling of feeling needed or necessary. |
'''Cedural Attraction''', also known as '''Dependent Attraction''' or '''Submissive Attraction''', is a form of [[tertiary attraction]] that revolves around wanting to feel protected, covered, understood, tutored, and supported by someone else. It is the reverse of [[tutelary attraction]]. With cedural attraction one feels weak and vulnerable, the possibility that someone might protect them makes one feel an attraction towards that person. It is also based on a feeling of feeling needed or necessary. |
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A relationship between protective and protected person can be labeled as guardianship, wardship, or tutelage. A person in that relationship who takes on the protected role could be called a concomitant or guide partner. A cedural crush could be possibly be called a gush or sush.<ref>https://www.deviantart.com/silencethefox/art/submissive-Attraction-Pride-Flag-739957250</ref> |
A relationship between protective and protected person can be labeled as guardianship, wardship, or tutelage. A person in that relationship who takes on the protected role could be called a concomitant or guide partner. A cedural crush could be possibly be called a gush or sush.<ref>{{Archive|Site=web|URL=https://www.deviantart.com/silencethefox/art/submissive-Attraction-Pride-Flag-739957250}}</ref> |
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This relationship should not be associated with DPD (dependent personality), protectors in [[System|systems]], or with BDSM and kink related power play sometimes seen in [[Sexual Attraction|sexual]]/[[Romantic Attraction|romantic]] relationships. |
This relationship should not be associated with DPD (dependent personality), protectors in [[System|systems]], or with BDSM and kink related power play sometimes seen in [[Sexual Attraction|sexual]]/[[Romantic Attraction|romantic]] relationships. |
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==History== |
==History== |
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The concept of cedural attraction was coined on December 23, 2014 on the Spanish language version of AVEN by the user Arya<ref>[https://es.asexuality.org/comunidad/viewtopic.php?f=8&t=130 http://es.asexuality.org/comunidad/foro/reflexiones-asexuales/130-tipos-de-atraccion]</ref>. It was known as ''atracción hacia protector'' and was explicitly distinguished it from the kink related power play (known as ''atracción de rol''),<ref>https://web.archive.org/web/20200714230219/https://es.asexuality.org/comunidad/viewtopic.php?f=8&t=130</ref> encompassed by ''atracción potencial'' ([[Potential Attraction|potential attraction]]).<ref>https://archive.is/VoNuW</ref> The post was translated by Tumblr user Neutrois-Maverique on March 16, 2018.<ref>[https://neutrois-maverique-blog.tumblr.com/post/171922500678/the-12-13-forms-of-attraction https://neutrois-maverique.tumblr.com/post/171922500678/the-12-13-forms-of-attraction]</ref><ref>https://archive.is/F1PVN</ref> ''Atracción hacia protector ''was translated as "submissive attraction".<ref>https://queerflagswithbenton.tumblr.com/post/172832114733/submissive-attraction-alternative-flag-by-me</ref> The term cedural was coined by beyond-mogai-pride-flags on August 16, 2018<ref>https://beyond-mogai-pride-flags.tumblr.com/post/177077999890/based-on-this-zedqueerplatonic-alt-flag-here</ref> meaning pleasurable, receptive, favorable, available, and suitable. Cedurality comes from the adjective procedural and the verb cede, another word for it is ceedable, [https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/cedent cedent], cedant and cedable (as in proceedable). |
The concept of cedural attraction was coined on December 23, 2014 on the Spanish language version of AVEN by the user Arya<ref>[{{Archive|Site=web|URL=https://es.asexuality.org/comunidad/viewtopic.php?f=8&t=130 http://es.asexuality.org/comunidad/foro/reflexiones-asexuales/130-tipos-de-atraccion}}]</ref>. It was known as ''atracción hacia protector'' and was explicitly distinguished it from the kink related power play (known as ''atracción de rol''),<ref>https://web.archive.org/web/20200714230219/https://es.asexuality.org/comunidad/viewtopic.php?f=8&t=130</ref> encompassed by ''atracción potencial'' ([[Potential Attraction|potential attraction]]).<ref>https://archive.is/VoNuW</ref> The post was translated by Tumblr user Neutrois-Maverique on March 16, 2018.<ref>[{{Archive|Site=web|URL=https://neutrois-maverique-blog.tumblr.com/post/171922500678/the-12-13-forms-of-attraction https://neutrois-maverique.tumblr.com/post/171922500678/the-12-13-forms-of-attraction}}]</ref><ref>https://archive.is/F1PVN</ref> ''Atracción hacia protector ''was translated as "submissive attraction".<ref>{{Archive|Site=web|URL=https://queerflagswithbenton.tumblr.com/post/172832114733/submissive-attraction-alternative-flag-by-me}}</ref> The term cedural was coined by beyond-mogai-pride-flags on August 16, 2018<ref>{{Archive|Site=web|URL=https://beyond-mogai-pride-flags.tumblr.com/post/177077999890/based-on-this-zedqueerplatonic-alt-flag-here}}</ref> meaning pleasurable, receptive, favorable, available, and suitable. Cedurality comes from the adjective procedural and the verb cede, another word for it is ceedable, [https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/cedent cedent], cedant and cedable (as in proceedable). |
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==Resources== |
==Resources== |