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'''Cedural Attractionattraction''' or '''docile attraction''',<ref>http://archive.today/2023.10.02-184703/https://thatpridedesigngeek.tumblr.com/post/725042531174350848/tutelarycedural-attraction-labels-flags</ref> also known as '''Dependentdependent Attractionattraction''' or '''Submissivesubmissive Attractionattraction''', is a form of [[Potential Attraction|potential]] and [[Tertiary Attraction|tertiary attraction]] that revolves around wanting to feel protected, covered, understood, tutored, and supported by someone else. It is the reverse of [[Tutelary Attraction|tutelary attraction]], and a flux of cedural attraction and tutelary attraction is [[Wechselnd Attraction|wechselnd attraction]]. With cedural attraction one feels weak and vulnerable, the possibility that someone might protect youthem makes youone feel an attraction towards that personindividual. It is also based on a feeling of feeling needed or necessary.
A relationship between protective and protected personindividual can be labeled as guardianship, wardship, or tutelage. A personindividual in that relationship who takes on the protected role could be called a concomitant or guide partner. A cedural crush could be possibly be called a gush or sush.<ref>{{Archive|Site=web|URL=https://www.deviantart.com/silencethefox/art/submissive-Attraction-Pride-Flag-739957250</ref><ref>https://www.deviantart.com/silencethefox/art/submissive-Attraction-Pride-Flag-739957250}}</ref>
This relationship shouldis not to be associatedconfused with DPD (dependent personality disorder (DPD), [[plural:Protector|protectors]] in [[plural:System|systems (DID)]], or with BDSM and kink related power play sometimes seen in [[Sexual Attraction|sexual]]/[[Romantic Attraction|romantic]] relationships.
The DPD version of this is [[Dependplatonicdependplatonic]]. The system version is [[Sysplatonicsysplatonic]].
== History ==
The concept of cedural attraction was coinedintroduced on December 23, 2014 on the Spanish language version of AVEN by the user Arya<ref>[{{Archive|Site=web|URL=https://es.asexuality.org/comunidad/viewtopic.php?f=8&t=130 http://es.asexuality.org/comunidad/foro/reflexiones-asexuales/130-tipos-de-atraccion}}]</ref>. It was known as ''atracción hacia protector'' and was explicitly distinguished it from the kink related power play (known as ''atracción de rol''),<ref>https://web.archive.org/web/20200714230219/https://es.asexuality.org/comunidad/viewtopic.php?f=8&t=130</ref> encompassed by ''atracción potencial'' ([[Potential Attraction|potential attraction]]).<ref>https://archive.is/VoNuW</ref> The post was translated by Tumblr user Neutrois-Maverique on March 16, 2018.<ref>[{{Archive|Site=web|URL=https://neutrois-maverique-blog.tumblr.com/post/171922500678/the-12-13-forms-of-attraction https://neutrois-maverique.tumblr.com/post/171922500678/the-12-13-forms-of-attraction}}]</ref>.<ref>https://archive.is/F1PVN</ref> ''Atracción hacia protector ''was translated as "submissive attraction".<ref>{{Archive|Site=web|URL=https://queerflagswithbenton.tumblr.com/post/172832114733/submissive-attraction-alternative-flag-by-me}}</ref> The term cedural was coined by beyond-mogai-pride-flags on August 16, 2018<ref>{{Archive|Site=web|URL=https://beyond-mogai-pride-flags.tumblr.com/post/177077999890/based-on-this-zedqueerplatonic-alt-flag-here}}</ref> meaning pleasurable, receptive, favorable, available, and suitable. Cedurality comes from the adjective procedural and the verb cede, another word for it is ceedable, [[wikt:cedent|cedent]], cedant and cedable (as in proceedable).
The alternate flag was designed by Tumblr user gennerflooid on October 12, 2022.<ref>http://archive.today/2022.11.19-170032/https://www.tumblr.com/gennerflooid/697933223284670464/alternate-cedural-attraction-and-tutelary</ref>
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